Sermon for 12/15/2013 from Pr. Mark T. Peterson
at Christ the King Lutheran Church, Holliston, MA.
Matthew 1:18–25
18Now
the birth of Jesus the Messiah took place in this way. When his mother Mary had
been engaged to Joseph, but before they lived together, she was found to be
with child from the Holy Spirit. 19Her
husband Joseph, being a righteous man and unwilling to expose her to public
disgrace, planned to dismiss her quietly.
20But just when he had resolved to do this, an angel
of the Lord appeared to him in a dream and said, "Joseph, son of David, do
not be afraid to take Mary as your wife, for the child conceived in her is from
the Holy Spirit. 21She
will bear a son, and you are to name him Jesus, for he will save his people
from their sins." 22All
this took place to fulfill what had been spoken by the Lord through the
prophet:
23"Look, the virgin shall conceive and bear a
son,
and
they shall name him Emmanuel," which means, "God is with
us." 24When
Joseph awoke from sleep, he did as the angel of the Lord commanded him; he took
her as his wife, 25but
had no marital relations with her until she had borne a son; and he named him
Jesus.
Greetings to you in the name of Jesus Christ,
In general, we all know who Joseph is. He’s someone we’ve
been looking at in nativity scenes and hearing about since we were children.
But while Joseph, the earthly father of Jesus, is pretty
familiar to all of us, we really don’t think about him all that much, until
it’s time for “the talk”. You know, the awkward talk concerning “marital
relations” that some of us have with our children, not as they’re becoming
adults, but starting when they are quite young. This is “the talk” we have,when
trying to explain how God is Jesus’ daddy, but so is Joseph, but not really. And,
because children are smarter than us adults, they keep asking why, or how this
could happen, and no age appropriate answer is really good enough to explain
how Joseph fits into this whole scheme. Eventually, the only way to move
forward is by asking the world’s greatest subject changer, “What is it you
wanted Santa to bring you this year?”
As we muddle through these talks, after a time, I think
children just learn to accept that Joseph is a part of this whole thing. Then
they become teens, and the questioning stops because they know everything. Then
teens become adults, who aren’t really thinking about Joseph until nativity
sets and children and challenging questions start popping up…so goes the circle
of life.
What we miss out on, as we give Joseph just a cursory
thought from time to time, is how difficult finding out about Mary’s pregnancy,
and the decision making process that followed, must have been on him. Maybe we
miss out on this, because it’s sort of glossed over in Matthew’s Gospel.
Matthew just tells us today that Joseph is a righteous man, and that he’s going
to do the honorable thing by ending things with Mary quietly.
But, even after he does the “righteous thing”, what does
life look like for Joseph after this quiet ending. Maybe, if all goes right, there’s
another betrothal and family with someone else, but even if all goes
wonderfully in his life, the pain of what appeared to be Mary’s betrayal, would
not simply be water under the bridge for Joseph, or any person.
As we think about this whole story of Joseph, it comes to
our attention that it’s not all stables and mangers and nostalgia. There is
hurt, pain, and disillusionment involved. Yet, as we take time to think about
Joseph’s troubling situation, we are also shown the way that God works, and the
transforming grace of this Savior, Jesus, who will be born in Bethlehem.
You see, to the extent of his abilities, Joseph was going
to do the right thing, by not dragging Mary through the mud and publically
humiliating her over this situation. But even this righteousness, would still bring
division, and separation, and it would all be caused by God giving the world a
savior. So, God doesn’t simply allow Joseph to let Mary go quietly.
Instead, God sends an angel, a messenger to Joseph, and
says, “Do not be afraid”. First, the angel disarms Joseph of his fear, and then
tells him the work that God is doing through the birth of this baby. Through this
angel, God gives Joseph a new way to be righteous, a way that doesn’t just end unpleasant
situations quietly, but instead is a way that brings people together in the
unending love of God.
As we really think about all these events today, this
birth of a Savior, seems to place a great burden on Joseph, and also, of
course, upon Mary. Life has been disrupted, there’s some tough conversations to
have, and God doesn’t even have the courtesy to bring about this miraculous
birth in the time of epidurals. By our
own human understanding, it’s not surprising that we’ve made this story of
Jesus’ birth so cute and nostalgic, because otherwise we can really only feel
sorry for Joseph and Mary, sorry that God gave them such a hard task, a heavy
burden so that the world’s savior could be born.
But our own human understanding is so warped that we miss
the true nature of the gift God is giving. God is not giving Joseph a burden to
righteously undertake. Instead, even though it’s not exactly according to plan
God is giving Joseph a spouse to trust and a child to love.
God’s gift of grace to us today, is exactly the same. We
have been given each other to trust in, and God’s Son, Jesus, to love together.
This isn’t the gift that gives us convenience or ease, but it is the gift that
gives us relationship, love, and joy the things that give us life, restore our
life, and indeed create new life.
This week, we again have families from Family Promise
Metrowest staying with us. These families are not a burden, or an
inconvenience, in order to fulfill some sort of Godly penance of good works,
they are a gift to us. They are people who God has given us to love.
Now, there’s a part of me that would like to say how much
time I’ve spent with the various families when we host FPM, and how everyone’s
lives are changed, and how if everyone just gave more of themselves in so many
different ways, we could end homelessness. But the reality is, is that I’ve
barely done anything, this ministry is the work of many others. And I say this,
because I don’t bring up FPM to guilt more people into serving in this
ministry.
But I didn’t do a whole lot, apart from being a good
sinner, to bring about the birth of Jesus, yet I rejoice in what God has done
through Joseph.
So instead, I bring up FPM, and the role CtK is fulfills
in its work and mission, because my heart is touched and hope is kindled in me
by the dedication of those who do volunteer, those who help purchase supplies, the
willing spirit that has been given to this congregation to share in this
ministry, and the stories of those who are through this help able to secure a
footing in this world. Stories of people that are able to spend Christmas this
year in an apartment or house, where last year they spent it in a church.
Stories of people who spend Christmas this year living in a church, instead of
in a car.
The truth is, God hasn’t called us to be a part of this
ministry, and all the ministries we undertake so that through us, all the
problems of the world can be solved. God has called us to be a part of this
ministry in order to give us the gift of love, the gift of Emmanuel, God with
us, that was given in Bethlehem, so long ago. God has called us to be a part of
this ministry to experience the salvation that comes when love is shared, not
when the world is exactly ordered, but right now in the midst of things that
should take away our joy and our hope.
This morning, as we share and rejoice in the ministries
God has given us, think back to Joseph. We remember that it was Joseph who
figured it all out on his own, but rather, it was the work of God, who came to
him and by that angel, transformed his mind. We remember as well, that once
Joseph agreed to marry Mary, the next line isn’t, “they had the baby Jesus, and
they lived happily ever after”. Being the earthly father of Jesus didn’t make
Joseph a perfect parent, or a perfect spouse.
But, we remember, that by giving him that angel, God gave
Joseph, Jesus Christ, a son who would love him, and each of us so much, that he
would even die for us. We remember that God worked through Joseph’s own human
limitations to give us a savior who has come to give us the way of love, the
way of life eternal. May we prepare for the coming of this Savior, inconvenient
as it may be at time, through our trust, care, and hope in each other, and in
all of the creation that God has given us to love.
In the name of the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit,
Amen